Today was technically April Fool’s Day but I didn’t realize this fact until halfway through the school day. I mean I didn’t pay much attention to this holiday back in the states either so it’s not too surprising.
School was the same basic routine. I had politics as my first class and we just did presentations the whole time (which meant work time for me) and then my second class was English (a bit more enjoyable because I can actually participate.) Because it was April Fool’s Day, a lot of teachers were allowing their classes to go outside especially since the weather was nice but Andrew was not having that. He had gotten a hair cut over the weekend and gave the excuse that his hair stylist banned him from doing such activities (AKA being outside?) as it would mess up his new hairdo. It was a pretty stupid excuse but funny nonetheless since it came out of Andrew’s mouth—you couldn’t help but laugh. Of course, however, his excuse was followed with some groans. I empathized with the other third years, it was hard focusing while watching other students run around outside enjoying the spring weather.
Katie and I decided to skip out on lunch at 하나고 today so that I could also come to Better World early to pick up my stipend before Korean class. Katie was busy memorizing her presentation on the way to class so we went to the convenience store to pick up lunch and then went our separate ways. I ran into Jenna, Shada, and Kaitlyn at the convenience store too so we walked back to the youth center together which was nice because I did not want to be alone on that walk today.
Korean class was nothing new… as the feeling of disappoint is something I’m getting used to as of late (wow, Emma… could you be any more depressing?) We got our monthly tests back in Korean class today and… I did so bad. I already knew I bombed my speaking test which negatively impacted my writing score as well but who would have thought I also would have done worse than normal on my reading test too! It definitely put me in a bad mood for the rest of class… (In case you missed it… here is the blog post about this particular test.)
However, there was one shining thing that I was able to look forward to at the end of class: Quater Squad hangout! I’m pretty sure I explained the origins of our name in my first original post so if you care that much to know, refer to this post here. Kaitlyn, Liam, Josh, and I met up to have dinner together and because we were just given some fresh stipend money that afternoon, we were feeling rich—even though we were the exact opposite— and so we were ready to have a fun night!
We planned to follow tradition and get pizza but since class ended at 5 pm (before we would meet up on Thursdays when class ends at 6 pm), we decided to go to a board game cafe for an hour. Actually this was an extremely spontaneous decision. First, we were just going to walk around and waste time that way but after turning down some random side streets here and there, we came across “Yellow Meeple” Board Game Cafe and the name alone was enough to pull us in.
We spent an hour there playing a round of RummiKub and then Jenga. It was funny because Kaitlyn beat us all at the first game (she was the self-asserted Rummikub queen) but was so quick to get out at Jenga even though it seemed that Liam was trying to knock down the tower on purpose looking at all the risk moves he was pulling. Honestly, I forget how fun playing board games can be, especially when the people you are playing with are not extremely competitive and instead just enjoy the playfulness of the act. I have been playing so many board games lately! Three cafes in the last three days! Also the place we went to had actual apple juice! Like I’m not talking the sugary filled apple juice drink (the only one available at most 편의점s), but actual apple juice!! The bottle itself was cute and the cafe provided everyone with heart shaped straws which made everything taste better? It’s like how using cute stationary makes studying more fun; the same can be said about utensils!
After the board game cafe, we returned to the pizza place only to see that there was a little bit of a wait so we decided to keep walking around the area and explore the many pretty cafes nearby until we got a call from the restaurant. (Also, note that we were all wearing our different school uniforms and probably were an interesting sight on a Monday night. But, I was having too much fun to even mind the fact that I was wearing my school uniform in public–usually a small insecurity of mine) We wanted to hang out at a cafe after dinner to talk so we made sure to scout out which ones looked good enough to come back to.
For dinner we ordered the legendary Quater pizza with our four sections being macaroni, meat lovers, bacon & cheese, and truffle & arugula maybe? I can’t remember but it was some leafy pizza. We also ordered a side of onion rings and ‘bacon steak’ which ended up literally just being thickly cut bacon pieces. The boys seemed to be the tiniest but disappointed. The onion rings were so good, though! Unlike traditional onion rings which are made by frying the literal onion in ring shapes, these onions were mashed first and then fried in an onion ring shape. This made them easier to eat because there were no moments where you would only take one bite and take the whole onion out of the ring batter because of its shape and tough-to-chew level of difficulty.
After stuffing our faces with food (Also big thankful shout out to Liam for paying for the entirety of the pizza! What a hero! Who is he?!?!), we went back down the narrow alleyways around the pizza shop and found a cafe to nestle in and chat at for the next hour or so. (Kaitlyn had to be back at the station promptly within an hour because of her sucky commute—trains every hour only.) Everyone decided to order milk tea but I stayed true to my roots and ordered a green tea latte.
With the boys, we just talked about a whole handful of things. Our relationships with the other NSLI-Y students, fights between ourselves, our thoughts on language improvement, our motivations, and even how we were feeling about the end of the program being so soon. At one point I remember telling Liam and Josh (Kaitlyn had left at this point) that living in Korea for a year has felt like a dream—like my life in America had just taken a pause. Everyone else’s lives continued while I’m living in a space time continuum in Seoul. But what I don’t fully realize is that when I get home, I will be a different person for sure. I will have changed. I will be put back in the same environment but I will be different and that is going to be strange. (I mean soon I’ll be in a new environment once again when college begins.)
I don’t know… the talk about going home made me really sad. A big part of me is ready to go home. I miss my family and my friends and I miss so many things I took for granted but at the same time… I’m gonna miss all my memories here, my freedom here, my friends here. This country has also started feeling like it belongs to me to. Even though, there are constant reminders that even if I moved here permanently, that would never be the case. As cheesy as it sounds, I have never felt the truth in the expression about a certain location keeping a piece of your heart ring more true than with my experience in South Korea. (Though, of course, New York is a close second!)
That’s enough for this blog post! I hope you enjoyed! Thanks for reading~ Till next time! If you like posts about traveling or just want to hear more about my experience studying abroad in South Korea, do not forget to follow my blog~ Thanks!
- Emma 엠마