제주도 수학여행 (Jejudo School Trip) Day 2-Part 2: 이중섭미술관, 삼겹살 맛집과 카페에서 밤 이야기 (05/02/20) NSLI-Y Korea AY

Thursday (05/02/20) – Part 2!

Bus Ride Selfie

After our excursion to 성산일출봉, we got back on the bus and after a while (and a much needed nap), arrived to the final major location for our ~educational~ but fun school trip: an art gallery of Lee Jungseob (이중섭미술관). Lee Jungseob is a very highly praised famous Korean artist when discussing modern Korean art. Although he only lived in Jeju for a rather short period of time, the island held significance to many pieces of his artwork and so the gallery was built in his honor. Additionally, besides visiting the gallery, one can visit the house that Lee Jungseob lived in with his family and walk along a street named after the artist (이중섭거리) which houses a lot of shops selling art, handicrafts, antiques as well as lots of cafes.

I walked around the museum and mostly kept following our former coordinating teacher around (or other classmates of mine) like a lost puppy because nothing in the museum was translated in English. I did put in effort to read a good amount of things myself but I found that I enjoyed hearing about the paintings and their explanations or background from others a lot more. And, through doing that, I actually learned more because 민정쌤 was quite informed on the subject of 이중섭.

To be honest, the life of 이중섭 was nothing near a life of luxury and rather more like the epitome of the struggling, starving artist. In a way, the added pity and sorrow brought even more emotions to his works and maybe even made them more relatable?

The gallery did not just exhibit paintings but there were also just artifacts of his life including letters, drawings, and postcards he sent to his wife and family while they were separated. 이중섭 married a Japanese woman and had two sons but besides the short stay with them when they lived together in their house on Jeju, they were long distance during his entire life. Because of the enduring poverty he had to face, he sent his family to Japan and they lived there while he stayed in Korea–and sent them money when he would earn it. It pained me to look at the evidence of such sacrifice and true love between him and his wife and it made me upset to know that in the end, they were never able to truly reunite as a family before he died. 

Another one of my favorite exhibits within the gallery included the drawings that 이중섭 made on scraps of metal foil from cigarette packs. Apparently, cigarettes were kept in metal tins in the past and while he could not afford actual art supplies, he was able to continue expressing himself and his struggles through scratching in drawings on the foil. 

After we spent some time at both the art gallery and the artist’s home, we were given some free time to explore the lengths of 이중섭거리 and along the road there were a lot of statues that gave homage to the art and style of 이중섭.

In specific, right near the entrance of the street with the sign displaying the name, there was a statue of an Ox (His most famous paintings probably being one of a white ox) and statues of people, depicted in his rudimentary, simple style (like those seen on the metal foil sketches).

Along the street, Katie, 선민, and I met up with our coordinating teacher 민정쌤 and the other homeroom teacher on the trip with us at a cafe and they were kind enough to buy all three of us drinks. Although I do not like coffee, I felt that I needed to take them up on their generosity and so I went ahead and ordered an iced coffee like the other girls. At this specific cafe, they served different types of coffee and you ordered which type you wanted based on the notes of the drink: nutty, fruity, etc. All three of us chose different notes and wow… I could actually not finish my drink. It was so bitter! I actually did not like any of the drinks… but I am not surprised. I am not a coffee person. Tastes like I am just ingesting dirt. Sorry not sorry. But !! I was appreciative and grateful for the gesture by the teachers. It was very sweet of them!

Afterwards, it was time for dinner and as if we had not already consumed enough meat products to last us the entire trip, we were going to eat more meat! But this time we were eating grilled 삼겹살 (grilled pork belly). I ended up at a table with Katie and 선민 this time around and we had an absolute ball grilling the meat, veggies, an kimchi ourselves. 

I am going to be honest..usually when I go out and eat grilled meat at restaurants, I tend to always have the other person grill the meat–both Koreans and foreigners alike. Guilty as charged.. I always allow them to take the rein and I sit back until everything is ready to be eaten. However this time, I actually tried my best to be the one to cook and pay attention and cut the meat too! Although, I was having a hard time figuring out how to properly cut the meat. Maybe I should have not tried using the scissors in my non dominant left hand. One of the workers came over to even help us–and explain how to cook the meat properly. They were properly laughing at us from afar. 

The restaurant was also set up as a buffet so you would order more servings of meat by asking the staff (but, of course, you were expected to eat everything you ordered/took) and then you would go to this long table in the middle that had all the extra goodies: different types of kimchi, side dishes, rice, lettuce, rice cakes, fried chicken, kimbap, etc. 

Katie and I also goofed around with our wraps by trying to feed each other wraps without using our hands? Or I guess…without wrapping everything for the other. This detailed the one that would be eating the wrap holding a lettuce piece in front of the open mouth and the other person placing the meat in the lettuce and pushing that into the mouth. How was that explanation for you? Either way, we did that and it led to some interesting videos. 

Everything was delicious and we were all stuffed beyond belief. There was a nice yard outside of the restaurant so before we got back on to the bus for a very long drive back to our hotel for the night, we all tried to expend our energy (before a food coma hit once we sat on the bus) by running around and being obnoxious teens as usual. Katie and I also picked wild flowers and made bracelets and rings from them. It was cute.

Once we returned to our accommodation, we ended the night spending some much needed ~chill~ time at a cafe! We were told by our coordinating teacher that there was a really cute, aesthetic cafe near the hotel and as long as we made it back in time for curfew, we were allowed to leave the premises. The cafe was called Cafe E.P.L and I am not sure if it was because we visited really late at night on a Thursday, but there was literally no one there. Possibly one other couple sitting inside? But we literally had the entire outdoor space to ourselves–ourselves being Katie, our lunch group at 하나고 (서린, 도윤, 윤세와 혜지) and one other classmate I got to meet/talk to for the first time. 

I vividly remember getting lost on the way to the cafe with the girls because we did not fully remember the directions that 민정쌤 gave us. We also tried using kakao maps to help us find our way but wifi was not adequate for this task. It was pretty dark and being a group of high school girls you might anticipate us being pretty nervous/anxious for safety but honestly we all felt fine–we were all just giggly and enjoying the thrill of being “lost.” We ended up walking in the complete wrong direction down a long main street until we eventually asked a random construction worker that was outside? And he pointed us in the other direction and we were eventually able to make it to the cafe once we found a sign.

The outdoor premises of the cafe honestly felt magical, especially since we were there at night. There were string lights hanging everywhere and tons of patio type seating. I felt like I would see fairies popping out from behind the greenery at any moment. There were lots of flowers everywhere and there was a photo zone consisting of a tent and inside, props were provided (like dried flowers, messages in a bottle, watering can, etc) to add some pizzazz to photos.

There were also these weirdly shaped cone-looking orange chairs that were structured to sit on one small surface area point on the bottom so the chairs would spin around dramatically when used. Honestly, although they were not high off of the ground at all, I literally screamed in complete fear when I first sat in the chair. Goofing off on the chairs was a lot of fun and I hope our shrieks did not annoy the cafe workers (or neighbors to the cafe) all too much.

The prices at the cafe were a tad bit overpriced but I guess that was kind of to be expected because it was the epitome of an insta-worthy cafe. We ended up ordering some drinks and shared some cake as well. Of course Katie and I had to try the oreo cookie monster cake because we are suckrs for any dessert involving chocolate and oreos and just take a look at the presentation of this slice of cake! I needed it. 

And that was the end of day 2 of my school trip to 제주도! We came back to the hotel after the cafe and got ready for bed. I expected us to try to stay up even later but we were so tired from the day’s adventure that we pretty much fell asleep right away. It was probably for the best, though. We would need energy for tomorrow’s plan too!

Well, I hope you enjoyed this post! Thanks for reading~ My next post will be day 3…unfortunately, the final day but it will still be a fun read (and a fun walk down memory lane for me!)

  • Emma 엠마

Outside Class (야외수업), Travel Maker Brunch in Hongdae, and Korean Monthly Exam (04/30/19) NSLI-Y Korea AY

04/30/19 Tuesday

Since Katie and I stayed up really late the previous night studying, we were both practically dead in the morning. We even went to the convenience store to buy coffee before school started because I knew that there was no way I would be able to sit awake during my classes today without some assistance from caffeine.

Morning selfie before we have to be in our homerooms

During first period, I had my English conversation class with three 2nd year students and instead of having any conversation on intellectual topics, we rather planned what we would be do in two weeks time when meeting up in 홍대 to hang out! The girls were going to be able to get permission to leave school to hang with me for a couple hours, so we spent our hour in the library picking where to eat and deciding what we could do to fill up the time. 수빈 recommended this really good (and cheap) chicken place that she had been to in 부산 (it was a chain) so were going to eat there and then most likely go to 노래방 (karaoke) and make perfume or macaroons or something crafty–we wanted to do something hands on! It was a lot of fun planning out our day!

My 한국사 (Korean History) teacher switched things up for today’s class and allowed us to have class outside which we call 야외수업! We left the classroom and walked down this really nice, scenic path past the 한옥 (Korean traditional house) museum and neighborhood almost towards the nearby Buddhist temple.

On our way there, we passed by these birds fighting on the sidewalk and one of the birds became injured and was struggling to flap its wings while it was down on the ground. A lot of the girls were scared of it although it was harmless so they kept shrieking every time it gained enough momentum to get a little bit off the ground. It was really sad to see it in so much pain, struggling to survive and get back up. One of the students called someone (maybe some type of Animal control?) so when we did walk back to the school, that bird was gone.

The teacher talked to us a little bit about the history of the area before letting us go free and visit either the Twosome Place Cafe or the convenience store. (He turned a blind eye away from those students who were buying ramen to stockpile reserves in the dorm.) During the entire duration of our outdoor class, I hung out and chatted with my friend 정민. She actually is close friends with my other third year friends (세림, 지은, and 지연) but this was the first class I was able to have with her.

She was so sweet with me that she even bought me a drink from the cafe–an iced chocolate (basically just the cold version of the hot chocolate). We talked all about our school lives and a bit about our past. Apparently, 정민 spent some time in America when she was young because her aunt lives in the US. That was interesting to hear about.

After Katie and I finished our second exchange student conversation class of the day before lunch time, we immediately booked it off of school grounds to try to get to 홍대 as fast as we possibly could. All the other NSLI-Y students had no school today so they planned to all go out for a traditional American brunch at a famous place in 홍대 called Travel Maker.

Katie and I were able to make it to the restaurant just around the time that everyone else was receiving their food. We were able to just sneak into the booths they were already at and order some pancakes. Luckily, even though we did have school, we were able to make in enough time to eat with everyone for a little while. After we finished eating, we wanted to take a group photo so I (with some random confidence) ran up to a complete stranger walking in the park across the street and asked them to take a photo for us. I was glad that we were able to put this little brunch date together!

Blueberry Pancakes ❤ My favorite food = pancakes

Afterward, we all had to go and take our monthly tests for April… what a downer to a great first half of the day. I walked to the Better World Office with Josh and Jacquelyn and we passed by his cafe that day and there was a really cute sign out front. It made me smile.

Translation: Difficult days also pass by. Waiting for a happy tomorrow.

Our test this month was extremely difficult. We expected it, though. Our teacher warned us about it. The passages in this test seemed a lot more complicated than the ones in past tests and they were so much longer too! I barely had enough time to read through all of the reading passages and answer all the questions. I had to pick my best guess for a couple questions. I was also super tired from staying up late studying (and the coffee in the morning already wore off), so I started nodding off during the test too which is never good! After we all finished the reading test, we made a stop at the closest convenience store during break time to pick up some pick-me-ups including coffee and gummy geckos.

Usually my blog posts about the unit/monthly tests tend to be a bit more negative because more often than not I feel mildly incompetent after taking each and every test. Luckily, because I am writing this so much later, I do not have those negative thoughts floating around in my head. Looking back at this test and my OPI, I feel like I did pretty well. Comparing it to my march speaking test which involved me crying while on the phone with my teacher, this one went a lot smoother. She actually asked me to describe the movie plot of one of my favorite movies so I went on and described the basic plot of Hello Ghost which involves suicide and ghosts and although the subject matter was heavy, I was able to explain it all better than I originally assumed I would be able to. (Actually, I feel like that answer was probably one of the biggest reasons for why I was able to move up a level that month.) The writing test for this month was writing about our individual projects and I felt prepared to discuss my topic, but I still struggled with vocabulary. Even though I had to substitute some desired words for ones that I did know, I felt that I explained everything I wanted to discuss in my paper quite well.

After the monthly test, Josh and I walked to 와플대학 to meet some of the other NSLI-Y students (Alix, Hunter, Katie, etc) for our after-test-tradition of waffles. I had dinner plans with a friend after the test so I ended up not ordering my own and just stealing some bites from Katie. We talked about our tests and ranted for a bit before I left for 신촌.

In 신촌 we went to a meat restaurant and had barbecue for dinner while chatting about a lot of different topics. I learned that the tape and arrows on the roads and alleyways pointing to certain restaurants were a part of events that the university students hold. Apparently like a fundraiser type thing? Or they are ways to try to raise membership for clubs and such. When we first got to the restaurant, we watched some female students putting the yellow tape on the road and as it got darker, we noticed people directing others to follow the tape to the final destination. 

Yonsei at Night

After eating we walked around the 연세 campus which was honestly the first time I really was able to walk around a large majority of the campus. Previously, I had only walked up the large drive (lawn maybe is a better term?) with Addie and Jessica on two separate occasions. My friend was not a student there or anything but we still walked around the different buildings anyways.

We ended the night just chilling at a cafe to talk. Cafe Pascucci was the name of the cafe and it was my first time there! We just got our drinks and relaxed on one of the sofa seats on the second floor and talked until I had to go because of curfew. It was a nice way to unwind after the stressful days leading up to the test day.

That is all for this blog post! I hope you enjoyed! Thanks for reading~

  • Emma 엠마

Kakao Friends Cafe and Japanese Dinner with my Host Sister (04/29/19) NSLI-Y Korea AY

Author’s Note: Unfortunately, the last month of my NSLI-Y program was very very hectic. I was unable to dedicate time to write daily blog posts let alone upload already edited posts. Because of this, I am now writing these posts nearly a month later (already back at home in America). Many of these next few posts are going to be quite short and brief because I forgot a lot of what happened… I now only have photos to jog my memory of the days’ activities. It is unfortunate that posts cannot be as detailed as my previous ones but I will still continue to write them regardless! I do still want to document my exchange year via this blog. This is enough of a blurb from me! Let us get on with the actual blog post content:

4/29/19 Monday

My politics and law class was a total blur but my advanced English class was a lot of fun today. Throughout this semester, we have been analyzing different types of writing as well as good traits in writing that the students should try to follow within their own writings. In class today we were wrapping up the argumentative essay portion of the class by reading one final argumentative essay on punishing children physically (ie. spanking). Before reading that piece, we went around the room and talked about our unpopular opinions. It was really interesting to see what all the students had to say. Our teacher Andrew started the conversation off with the fact that he does not understand sweet and salty combinations like fries and milkshakes (Not a Korean thing but a combination that is legendary nonetheless!) or salted caramel, for example. Some of the students brought up their dislike towards fishing, dogs, cherry blossom hype (not over-hyped but I digress), superhero movies, chocolate, and so on. 서연 chose me to share my unpopular opinion and I talked about the fact that I believe that naps do not work. I always feel way more tired after taking naps and so I feel like they are honestly a waste. The 하나고 students (who are constantly sleeping during breaks–or during class for that matter) quickly came to attack me and told me that power naps (less than 20 minutes) were truly great. I will stick to my unpopular opinion!

After school, Katie and I went to 연서시장 (the market near the closest subway station to 하나고) to have some 떡볶이 (Ddeokbokki- spicy rice cakes) and 튀김 (assorted fried foods) for lunch. We did not know it then but it ended up being the last time we ever had lunch at that market. When we got there to order, the lady in charge of the front immediately smiled at us as she recognized us from the previous times we have visited. The employees are always the same. This time, she did not even explain the fact that the food would be brought out to us or that we could fill up cups with 오뎅국물–because she knew that we were already aware of what we are doing. We are market pros! 

Today’s Korean class was the final class before our April monthly test. We did not learn any new grammar points but instead tried to quickly finish up the reading and listening dialogues for the last chapter we were working on because recently, we have been going on too many tangents during class.

After class, I was not in the mood to go home right away so I decided to shop around with Kaitlyn as she wanted to get a head start on finishing a list of things she needed to buy before leaving Korea. Originally, we planned to just visit those roadshop beauty stores and then get bubble tea at Gongcha but then randomly I convinced Kaitlyn to go to the Kakao Friends Store Cafe with me because I had yet to visit it. Actually, it was my first time ever walking into the store. I had not gotten the chance to go in during the past 8 months. (And the last time I was in Korea, there was no store in 홍대. I had only been to the pop-up one in the 신촌 subway station!)

Anyways, I caved in and bought an overpriced chocolate cupcake just because it had Ryan–my favorite Kakao character–’s face on it while Kaitlyn ordered some milk ice cream, milk flavored ice cream… I know a bit strange because well isn’t ice cream usually made with milk?

Kaitlyn and I just chatted for a bit and I enjoyed catching up with her. We used to hang out a lot more and do more cafe dates in the past but for some reason those became lesser and lesser. I was happy to start hanging out with her more! I really do love Kaitlyn ❤ 

I came home to find out that my eldest host sister and host mom had plans for the night so I would just be having dinner with my younger host sister. We decided to go out to eat for the night (which took a while to decide because we are both very very indecisive) at some Japanese restaurant. The dinner was actually really great because we got the chance to talk more (just us) and it was definitely less awkward than the first few times we hung out when I first moved in with this family. The food was delicious too! I had a bowl of udon noodles (thick wheat flour noodles) with donkatsu (pork cutlet).

For the rest of the night, I just hardcore studied for my Korean test because I really wanted to show some improvement during this month. 

Also LOOK! I am on a flyer for host family outreach! (Upper left corner–my host sisters and me)

Well, that is all for this blog post! I love that I said that these upcoming posts would not be detailed and then I explain everything with the utmost detail. It is weird. I cannot remember the entire outline of the day but my brain tends to remember certain parts of my day very vividly–no matter how insignificant those moments are. Anyways, till next time~ Thanks for reading!

  • Emma 엠마

Global Youth Service Day: Making Korean Masks at Youth Center & Eating REAL Pie (04/27-04/28/19) NSLI-Y Korea AY

04/27/19 Saturday 

Today was Global Youth Service Day! And if you don’t know what that is, it is an international day recognizing youths’ contribution to their communities. It calls upon the youth of the world to also complete community service on the day in honor of what it stands for. Because of this, Better World organized us to do an extra community service event at the youth center in 마포구 which I did service at throughout the duration of our winter break. 

Today we prepared presentations for the children on Korean traditional mask dance (since we did see one in 안동, we are basically experts—just joking…) Each Korean class had a more specific topic under the branch if mask dance to focus on and present about. My class focused on the history although in my part, I talked about the present usage/application of mask dances (tourism mostly) and then ended off the presentation with a cheesy “If you get the chance to see a mask dance, don’t miss the opportunity and make sure to grab it.” Everyone loved it, though!

After our presentation, we all got matched up with one Korean student (well except me and Addie but we ended up stealing other people’s kids instead) and we made Korean masks! We were given a plain white shell/mold of one of two types traditional masks (One was the bride and the other was the nobleman I believe? Or maybe the fool?) Then to decorate them, we had this textured puffy/slime colored clay? I really don’t know how to describe it! It was like using textured foam and clay at the same time! We used that to cover our masks and decorate them. 

Making the masks was actually fun and kind of calming, stress-relieving even. It was also really nice getting to talk to the kids about a lot of things from their trials making homemade slime to BTS—a room favorite it seemed. We also ate lunch with the kids. Better World and the youth center bought us all burgers from McDonald’s.

This was my first time ever having a shrimp burger!! I remember opening the wrapping and expecting to see a beef patty (as I did not read the label when grabbing my food) and was extremely shook to see a pretty much pink/beige patty. It was good though. I will admit.

We ended off the event by all cleaning up together, taking a group photo, and dancing? We played this one girl group song which has a pretty provocative dance and these two little boys danced along with it so well! I haven’t seen the original but I would bet tons of money that it is definitely not as entertaining as the version we saw today. 

Afterward, I didn’t want to go home right away, so Kaitlyn and I made plans to visit a cafe together and get some work done (Korean studies or our individual research projects). It was kind of a last minute decision to go so I just hopped on Mango plate and looked for a cafe that seemed pretty and I found this one that seemed to serve real, authentic looking pie! Most places in Korea that claim to sell pie really just sell fruit tarts. (This was first learned when searching for pie to eat on pie day last month…)

The name of the cafe was 오늘의 위로

But these looked like the real deal. Real slices of American-style pie! I pulled it up on Kakao maps and somehow, with my mediocre navigational skills in tow, we were able to find the cafe! It was actually extremely small with only about 4 tables to sit at so we decided not to stay that long as courtesy to the other guests that would want to eat here. We left after a short line formed outside. Kaitlyn ordered a strawberry cake while I went for a slice of warm apple pie and a scoop of vanilla ice cream–which was extra but worth it. It was honestly so delicious! Tasted like Thanksgiving! I was in love! (And in addition to the amazing taste, everything looked so aesthetically pleasing!)

We were pretty productive in between the random spurts of us just having fun conversation. We left the cafe before dinner time, both returning to our respective homes for the night. Originally I wanted to go out but since I had already done the most this midterms week (basically going out and having fun every single day for the whole week), I needed some rest. 

Lazy Dinner = Ramen

4/28/19 Sunday

Today was a very chill Sunday. I did nothing. I stayed at home all day and worked on my Korean homework and created the outline for my individual project (which was due at 11:59 pm that night).

앤디야~ 왤케 귀여워??

I’m also writing this blog post more than two weeks after this day happened so a lot has left my memory unfortunately… additionally, the lack of pictures does not help but I am assuming it wasn’t too eventful. 

Sometime in the afternoon, my host mom bought croquettes from the little shop within the train station that sells them for like 1,000 to 2,000 won or less. I had never really eaten a croquette before (or the particular ones at that shop although I pass it every time I use the subway and usually always consider buying something but talk myself out of it every time). For those who don’t know what a croquette is, it is basically a fried pastry (kinda like a fritter type thing?) filled with something.

The ones my host mom bought were filled with vegetables, sweet potato, cream cheese, and red bean. (There was one with corn salad but y’all know I did NOT touch that beast…) My favorite ones from the bunch were the 찹쌀도넛 which were these circular donuts (honestly like munchkins) that were filled with red bean and had mochi-like texture. They differ from traditional donut holes;however, because they are made with rice flour rather than being yeast donuts. It was chewy and soft at the same time!! My host mom and I just ate them and talked for a bit before I returned to my room to attempt to be more productive. (I do believe I finished a movie on Netflix this day as well…) 

I was doing homework and then got so confused by this passage. We are currently learning about recent innovations and high-tech products and this particular line brings up a fridge with a screen that allows for its users to check where certain things are inside. I was like what? Are we really becoming this dependent on technology? We can just OPEN the door!

Well that is all for this blog post~~ I hope you enjoyed reading! I’m really behind on these posts but life has gotten so hectic here since it is the end of my time in Korea (10 days left exactly!) so I’m trying to make the most of everything and that does not mean spending hours on my computer writing and editing blog posts…only downside is I forget a lot when I don’t write them soon after… *sigh* Thanks for reading! 

  • Emma 엠마 

Heyri Art Village (헤이리 마을), Provence Town (프로방스 마을), and other Shenanigans in 파주시 (04/26/19) NSLI-Y Korea AY

04/26/19 Friday

Today was the last day that Katie and I would have off for our midterm week and so we had to end off the week with a bang! To do this, we decided to go on a trip to 헤이리 예술 마을 (Heyri Art Village) with some of the 대원외고 students: Jenna, Shada, Josh, Liam, and Harmony. This particular place was not too far from me as I live on the edge of 고양시 in the 일산 neighborhood so if I could drive, it would have been a less than 20 minute drive to the village. I could not for the life of me figure out how to take a bus from my station to one of the gates of the village so I gave up and decided to go the way everyone else was— meeting at 합정역 and from there, transferring onto one of those big buses for an hour or and driving up to 파주시. But even though it was kind of an illogical way for me to travel, I enjoyed the extra time with my friends.

Cool kids at the BACK of the bus! W/ Liam & Harmony

We met early in the morning so that we could get to the village by 10 am in order to have ample time to explore everything. The bus that we rode on was not your usual city bus and more like a type of shuttle bus. One thing that was cool about the bus was that it had a seat counter. Every time someone swiped their card, the seat counter would subtract a seat. I thought this was honestly really innovative so that you could see if there were seats before you got on—especially considering there really wasn’t any room to stand. I sat in the very back of the bus with Harmony and Liam and after about an hour of travel, we made it to 헤이리 예술 마을. 

It was a bit colder than anticipated (and it started to rain) when we arrived so we wanted to hurry and make our way into a cafe or museum but because we had gotten there so early, most things were closed.

We found this one open bakery that was really nice. It had a very warm and rustic atmosphere to it and the pastries all looked delicious (but the prices were not cheap). I ended up buying some chestnut bread that also had raisins and dried cranberries inside. It was the cheapest thing I could find but it was also good nonetheless. We all hung out there for a bit chatting, waiting for some time (and the rain) to pass. 

To be honest…these looked better than they tasted. Should have bought one of those Shrek-lookin gingerbread bears!

I then get a message from 민정쌤 about a missing PowerPoint from 3반 who promised to prepare one for community service event the following day. I told her that we would do it by three as Josh and I expected to go to a cafe after lunch to work on it but 민정쌤 got mad and scolded us for not giving it to her by the deadline. She started saying that she knows we all have things we still want to do in Korea but we can’t ignore our work since this is a scholarship program. It made me feel really bad and guilty that I almost started to cry. Josh realized my feelings and we ended up deciding to finish the presentation right then and there while the others just walked around for a bit until we were done. We made our PowerPoint in record time and then left to explore the village with the rest of the students. 

We went to walk around a park and found this red cherry shaped statue with the phrase “Love’s Fruit” written on one side. I recognized the statue which made me start looking around until I saw the familiar sight of the front of a cafe.

I kept walking closer until I was sure. I started screaming to Katie and I pulled her over to the cafe and pointed at the doorway that had a statue of a creepy doll. It took Katie a few seconds before she realized. We had both been to this cafe before! My host family took us after we had dinner at our favorite 짬뽕 place in 파주시. I couldn’t believe that we had technically come out here and I had no idea! 

Harmony brought her DSLR camera so we took lots of photos in front of the statue and with the scenery surrounding the park. It was a lot of fun! We took some serious, good shots while also sprinkling in ones with ridiculous poses for good measure. I will admit that the 대원외고 kids have mastered the straight face/sexy model poses better then us 하나고 girls… we will have to work on it. 

After taking photos wiped us clean of our energy, we decided to make our way to Provence Town which is a French themed town right next to the art village.

gloomy weather… but it still had its charm

Honestly, I think I liked this area the best! It took us about twenty minutes to walk there and it did start raining while we were on our way, but the effort put forth in trying to find it was definitely worth it. The town had all these beautiful brightly colored buildings and lots and lots of greenery. I don’t know if everything was exactly “French-looking” but it was at least very fairy tale-like if anything.

For lunch we ended up going to this place that had special lunch sets which came with soup, garlic bread, a drink, and then a main course being either pasta or 돈카쓰 (I ended up choosing the latter because it was 3 dollars cheaper—honestly the cost of things really affect what I purchase!) The soup we had was mushroom which I haven’t eaten in so long. And even though the garlic bread was sweet, I enjoyed it nonetheless. The portion sizes were huge so Liam ended up eating a lot of my meal.

 Afterward, we walked around more and enjoyed the views of the area before finding a cafe to chill in for a bit. Harmony and I were going to film a YouTube video on the rooftop of a cafe.

We came to the this particular cafe because the outside was absolutely gorgeous with light blue walls and flowers and ivy growing along the side. I’m not sure if it was because it was Friday (afternoon) or because it’s usually not too packed but no one was there! Literally there was probably one table filled on the first floor and then both the second and third floor were empty. We had the rooftop all to ourselves! It was so nice! 

Laughing Photos ❤

We filmed the video, ate some macaroons, took some artsy photos (You can decide whether you deem the attached photos artsy enough but I believe that they are some museum grade stuff.) After hanging out for a bit, we left and took the bus back to 홍대 this time. The others planned to head to a 찜질방 near 이화 but I was supposed to have dinner with my host sisters so I decided to just head home after getting off at 홍대. 

The bus ride was a lot of fun, though. The hour went by really quickly as we all talked the whole time and spilled some of our most embarrassing moments. (I told them about the day I ran into a glass door during my NSLI-Y summer program—that blog linked here—and a few other things that will not be spoken about on the internet. 

I used slang with my friend 호영 and his reaction killed me. I showed my host sisters his messages during our dinner together and they were so impressed by me 😉 IYKYK

Well, that is all for this blog post! I hope you enjoyed~~ Thanks for reading !! Do not forget to subscribe for more~ I still have some interesting posts to share!

  • Emma 엠마 

Ikseon-dong {익선동}, Flower Cafe, and First Korean Convenience Store Ramen (04/25/19) NSLI-Y Korea AY

04/25/19 Thursday 

Our plan to make the most of our days off was to return to 익선동 on a day in which there would be little to no crowds (AKA today) because the first time we visited back in March—on a Friday—there were so many people that walking through the narrow streets and alleyways between the closely packed buildings was extremely difficult. We decided then that it would have to be an excursion we take again during our midterm break. We decided to return to 익선동 to do some more shopping (for clothes, jewelry, whatever else) and also go to this cute flower cafe that we kept passing by the last time we went. 

Most cafes in Korea tend to open pretty late in the morning (11 am is a pretty average opening hour for most cafes here in Seoul) but this one was open from 7:30 am! Unfortunately, it’s not a study cafe though… so I wouldn’t know why anyone would come this early but I guess for those who want to peacefully take pictures undisturbed, they can do that super early in the morning. 

Although the cafe was obviously not meant for studying and more here for aesthetic reasons, Katie and I studied there anyway. I ended up ordering a rose latte (because I wanted something unique!) and Katie got her usual recent favorite—strawberry latte (which in Korea is just milk with strawberries… literally.) We were not being too productive as I kept getting distracted by our plans for our trip to 파주시 for the following day with the 대원외고 students.

We left the cafe earlier than planned and just did some strolling around the area. A lot of things were still closed which was a shame. Most of the cafes and food stalls don’t seem to open until 1 or 2 so although coming in the morning is a great way to beat the crowds, it may not always be the best decision either. (As an example, the jewelry shop that I bought earrings and a necklace from last time was closed unfortunately.. and no churros or 호떡 for us either! But maybe this curse was disguised as a blessing because it kept me from spending money!)

For lunch, we ended up just buying ramen from the convenience store near the youth center where I take Korean classes and eating it in the lobby of the fourth floor. We used the hot water from the water filter/dispenser and cooked the ramen that way.  (My first time not boiling water the traditional way–on a stove-top) It was actually also my first time buying ramen from the convenience store! But I still have yet to buy it, cook it, and eat it at the convenience store. I really want to have this inherent “Korean” experience but I just have not had the chance yet! That is still on my bucket list!! Although I will say, I am not the biggest fan of ramen so maybe that is why I have not instantly jumped at the prospect of completing this one.

It was sooo spicy yet so good! (I will have to bring some of these back with me to America…;)

However, this ramen was so good? The one Katie and I bought came with a packet of kimchi to mix in with the ramen because it was 김치찌개 (kimchi stew) flavored which only added to its deliciousness!

Josh’s dumpling-looking crab

During Korean class today, we did not get through much of anything that we needed to get through. We kept on getting off track by telling stories about things that somewhat related to the chapter?? When we went over the vocab words for the chapter, we discussed this proverb: 개자는 게 편이다 which basically has the same meaning of the English saying birds of a feather flock together. And I guess because of this proverb, Josh drew this very very weird looking crab on the board. It highly resembled a 만두 (dumpling). Our teacher showed him up thereafter though! She drew the cutest crab! I love her drawings~

After class, I went with Jacquelyn to walk around the main streets of 홍대 in search of some cute unique earrings because she was going out to dinner but did not bring any to class. I tagged along because I did not want to go home just yet but of course, I ended up buying some earrings as well–two pairs for only 5 dollars! We ran into Addie and Katie while walking back to the subway station and I decided to go with Katie to try to find something to buy to wear tomorrow. We walked around and ended up in one of our favorite stores (Lucky Factory)… I bought a dress for tomorrow–on sale–so I do not feel that bad for spending something extra on myself. I went home after that and chilled with my host mom, ate dinner, and did…some homework.

This post is extremely short! I would combine it with tomorrow but I know it is going to be super long and I do not want to post something that is too painfully long… so this is all for now. Thanks for reading! I hope you enjoyed anyways!

  • Emma 엠마

Asia Philanthropy Awards & Hanging Out with Korean Friend in 서촌 (04/24/19) NSLI-Y Korea AY

04/24/19 Wednesday 

My school uniform had to go and mess up my plans for this morning. I was originally planning on going to 경복궁 with Katie this morning to wear pastel colored premium 한복 (Korean traditional dress) and take photos but my uniform (or the lack of one) stopped me from following through on that plan. After 경복궁, we had to meet at 을지로입구역 at 12:05 pm to attend a mandatory NSLI-Y obligation, so we were only going to be walking around the palace grounds for about an hour and a half.

I woke up at 7 am and got ready by 8 am because it takes me about an hour to get to 경복궁 from where I currently live (west side of 고양시). While getting ready, I proceed to pack my bag with my school uniform (We had to wear our high school uniforms to the event– It was mandatory), only to realize that everything was in the wash.

Because I was not attending school this week, I put all of my uniform in my hamper to be washed without even considering the fact that it would not be dry in time for Wednesday. I started to freak out but I assumed I could just dress formally–in a dress– and then wear my school blazer (the one part of my school uniform, besides my bow or tie, that was not in the wash). I texted 소영쌤 about the situation and assumed that it was already solved and that this would be the end of that but… unfortunately, I was wrong. I was on the train–about 30 minutes from my house– and 소영쌤 tells me that I need to wear my uniform no matter what. Even if it is just my skirt and blazer but with a different top. But she stressed that I needed my skirt.

So I had to turn around to get home and wait an hour until my host mom woke up so that I could ask her to get my uniform (because it was hanging up to dry on the balcony attached to her room). My vest and dress shirt were soaked so I ditched those and just wore my wet skirt to appease 소영쌤 and the other 쌤s. I was back on the train before I knew it on the way to the ceremony…low key wishing that I did have the chance to go to 경복궁 with Katie.

I ended up getting to the meeting location about 20 minutes early and so did Alice so we ended up just walking around the area nearby. It reminded me of the main shopping streets of 명동 but way less touristy. It was definitely a place I could see a lot of college students going. Alix and I stumbled upon an earring shop with a lot of sales so we looked around and both bought something. (Since coming to Korea, I have fallen in love with earrings! I used to wear the same earrings every single day for basically all of high school.)

Eventually, we all met up with each other and made our way to the banquet hall that would be holding the APA: Asian Philanthropy Awards. (Did I mention earlier that this was what we would be doing?) Our group included all of the 대원외고 students, Katie and me, and the couple of others who wanted to skip school to attend this event: Hunter, Alix, June, and Jacquelyn. 

We ate some 김밥 that they prepared for us for lunch and then we pretty much sat there for the next hour. Jacquelyn was the only one really doing stuff as she had to practice for her co-host position. (She translated what the host said into English throughout the award ceremony. She was given a script before the event.)

Look at us ❤

About an hour before the start of the awards, June and I were delegated the task of standing in front of the second set of elevators (and the bathroom) to direct people coming off of the elevators to the check-in as well as direct people looking for the bathroom in the right direction. So we stood near the doors awkwardly yet boldly telling people where to go with Korean phrases we practiced with each other several times before we got the first chance to use them. Some people were really impressed with us and I really appreciated the people that would still greet us and ask us questions in Korean, it was validating. There were plenty of people that tried to shake our hands and only greeted us with “Hello” did it for us, but I tried my best to not take the comfortable route and go along with the ‘foreigner’ treatment. (plus I speak Korean so !! it was strange to suddenly switch to English.)

As expected… the group photo! 역시 그룹 사진을 찍었죸ㅋㅋ

The awards started at 2 pm and you best know that I raided the dessert and refreshment table before it began—one plastic cup filled with butter cookies and chocolate wafers. The people winning awards were from all around Asia including a Vietnamese Non-Profit Organization, a Japanese businessman, and an Indian man who won philanthropist of the year. There was also an award that went out to this high school student for developing music therapy programs at her school and others in the nearby area. She actually goes to an international school here in Korea and speaks perfect English! 

They even had a performance! This group did a lively tap dance routine!

Once the award ceremony was over, Katie, Mackenzie, and I convinced 주연쌤 and 소영쌤 to have individual meetings with us so we could talk about our stresses and how we are feeling about the end of the program being so soon. (This involved convincing them not to return to the Better World Office after the event).

❤ 우리 사랑하는 소영쌤과 주연쌤 ❤
벚꽃아이스크림

They said yes and so we went to a cafe and all had ice cream! Most of us tried their seasonal flavor of cherry blossom but honestly the flavor was really weak, which actually turned out to be a good thing since the after taste was reminiscent of cherry kid’s cough medicine. But still, I ate all of it and felt very grateful to 주연쌤 for buying it all for us! ❤

After that, Katie and I made our way to the 서촌 area near 경복궁 (made it here eventually ;”) in order to meet our supporter 혜린언니 for dinner and a cafe date! She had finished midterms that day (and had stayed up all night to study), so she ended up falling asleep right before we met up and woke up right at our meeting time. We waited about half an hour for her to arrive and she could not stop apologizing to us! But we wholeheartedly understood! We had no problem waiting for one of our favorite people! 

Two of my favorite things in this one photo: 혜린언니 & 떡볶이! hehe

For dinner, we decided to go to 통인시장 but by the time we got there, pretty much every stall was closed or starting to close so our options were very limited. We found this one small place that had some indoor seating near the exit of the market and we shared some 떡볶이 (spicy rice cakes), 순대 (blood sausage), and 튀김 (fried veggies like sweet potato and seaweed). 혜린언니 did not think the food tasted that good and wished we could have ate something better but Katie and I kept reassuring her that we enjoyed the meal! And regardless of the taste, we were not here for the food but for her! It really touches me that she cares so much about us. How did we get so lucky to have been basically placed with the best supporter?

We went to a cute cafe after dinner and shared a lava cake and a strawberry and blueberry late which were way too expensive but nonetheless very delicious! We spent the next couple of hours just talking and laughing the night away. The previous times we have met, we talked in a lot of mixed English and Korean but this time it was almost all in Korean! I could not believe how much we have improved to talk about all that we did! A lot of dating talk went down? Comparing relationships in America and Korea. It was quite fun. We also high key talked about people and things they do that annoy us– AKA pet peeves!

I really enjoyed this night with 혜린언니 and Katie and my heart truly aches when I think about our last meeting before we return to America (because this will not be our last!) I am going to miss her so much! It has been great having an older sister that I am so close with! Luckily, I know she will always be here for me to hang out whenever I do return. For that, I am grateful!

  • Emma 엠마

Korean Class Hangout, Pasta Dinner with Resident Director, and Mailing Packages Back to America (04/23/19) NSLI-Y Korea AY

4/23/19 Tuesday 

Katie and I met up at 홍익 station at around 10:30 am so that we would have ample time to walk to the post office (about a 20 ish minute walk—but it felt like years carrying all of our bags) to mail some packages back to America. Because the program is coming to an end, we are beginning to worry about the whole packing situation: overweight bags or not having enough space at the end is not an option! With all our bags in tow, we made the walk in the heat to mail our things. I brought a lot to mail! So much.. in fact, I couldn’t even mail everything in the one box I chose… I’ll have to come back if worse comes to worse…

I packed up and sent all of my finished Korean workbooks, unused notebooks, stationary, Korean notebooks, books, stuffed animals, two winter coats, and a couple random things like a music box, party hat, etc. 

Boxes fully packed!

Katie and I were experts this time around and were able to pack our things into the boxes and fill out the mailing form with only a couple mistakes. Mine ended up being about $40 by boat for like 17 pounds? Possibly… I’m not sure how their scale worked.

We left the post office feeling accomplished and then stopped by a nearby convenience store for ice cream because after this whole ordeal we were sweaty—and felt that we deserved the sweet treat. We scarfed those down pretty quickly and recharged for a couple minutes before heading back to Better World to meet up with 소영쌤 and 주연쌤 for lunch. While we were walking back; however, Katie began doubting my navigational skills—convinced that I took the wrong turn. I kept telling her that I knew what I was doing but low key I did just make the turn at that moment because it felt like the right moment to turn. So I was also worried that I made a mistake. Eventually, we saw some familiar places and knew that we were on the right path. I was proud that my ‘traveler intuition’ if you will did not steer me wrong. It also made me happy to realize how well I have adjusted to the area–it does feel so familiar and comfortable.

When we got to Better World, 주연쌤 asked me what I wanted to eat and I said pasta which blew a fuse with 주연쌤 because she and Katie were planning on going to a pasta place too. She assumed that we did that on purpose to eat together. (Though I was the first one to tell Katie that I wanted to have pasta!) They took us to this little joint down an alleyway from the office and we even passed this ‘quirky’ cafe. Upon seeing the name, both me and Katie read it aloud: Cafe Urp, saying the last word like the urp in burp. 주연쌤 laughed and corrected us by informing us that you are supposed to say each of the letters of the name individually. She mentioned that last year’s group did the same thing! It’s just the cafe’s name, not us! (Apparently, last year’s program’s students loved this place. It is so interesting to see how each cohort is so different.)

Look at this complimentary bread! It was black! (Because it was infused with squid ink! So cool)

Lunch with 소영쌤 was really great! I ordered a carbonara pasta and it was one of the best pasta dishes I have probably had in Korea? I loved that it was a cream pasta but that the cream wasn’t overwhelming. Plus the mushrooms were perfectly cooked! It was kind of expensive for 13,000-15,000 Won for a plate of pasta but that’s normal for Italian food here; we cannot complain about that price point. I’ve felt like I haven’t gotten the chance to get really close with 소영쌤 (Maybe because she came a little bit later into the program? She joined the office back in mid-late November. But honestly, I forget that she has not been with us since the beginning often! That is a good sign I believe.) After talking with her a lot during my host family check-In meeting, I wanted the chance to talk to her more. 

I’ve never been prouder of my Korean skills than I was during this lunch. I honestly surprised myself with the things I was able to say— the grammar points and vocab words used. But most importantly, I was proud of myself for figuring out how to explain my thoughts properly and for talking around things when I was missing vocab word knowledge. For example, at one point, we discussed my individual research project which is about Korean society’s perception of the disabled—with a main focus on those with mental disabilities rather than physical. I wanted to explain that some families will go to the great length of convincing the doctors to misdiagnose their patients in order to not receive a diagnosis of Autism. I didn’t know the word for diagnose and I sat there for a couple seconds becoming really frustrated with myself because I could only think of the word for “to prescribe” which I knew wasn’t right. I began to think about how to say the word in English but I couldn’t even think of that. And then suddenly, I just started talking around the subject and giving an example to 소영쌤 for her to tell me the word for ‘to diagnose’ (it is 지단하다 by the way) and from there, I was able to explain my thoughts. This may seem like something small but often times when I can’t figure out how to say something, I give up and just say anything but what was originally intended. I filter my own thoughts due to these ‘word barriers.’ This lunch showed me that I can overcome the bad habit of planning out what I want to say in my head before saying it. I can make sense if I just let myself speak! 

We had such great conversation! I talked all about my project and we discussed the possible sources of the difference in perception of disabilities between America and Korea. We also talked about the burning sun controversy, drug related arrests, drug searches/investigations, the Topik test, technology causing a disappearance of jobs, the difficulty of getting a job after college, teachers at 하나고, and finding a roommate for college! It was a really nice lunch~~ I hope I can do something like this with her again once last time before we leave—even if it’s just a little cafe date. 

After lunch, Katie and I walked back to the youth center and just hung out with all the other students for a bit. I ended up taking a walk with Shada and then stopping at Dari Cafe together just to chat—while I was multitasking by studying both my vocab words on Quizlet and talking to Shada. 

Class today was very rushed as we are currently a bit behind when it comes to our schedule. Today we ended up having to present our technology presentations which were supposed to originally have been given last week Thursday. We also took a quiz that was supposed to be taken then too. This time, our teacher made our tests harder by increasing the amount of vocab questions (as well as the amount of words in the word bank) and adding more questions that included answers that were proverbs or commonly used phrases. There were word banks (or should I say phrase banks?) for the proverbs but questions for the phrases gave nothing. 

Lately, I haven’t been doing my best on these quizzes. Usually it’s a mix of mostly me not understanding the actual question (like the overal meaning or random vocab words in it) and then sometimes me generally not knowing a word in the word bank. This time, though, I surprised myself. On the hardest quiz we have probably had yet, (Also, we are on textbook 5! This is like Topik Level 5 advanced vocab !!) I got 100%!! Nothing wrong!! I haven’t gotten an 100 on a quiz in what seems like forever. I couldn’t stop smiling. I’ve been getting back to studying the amount that I need to do well and the effort is already starting to show itself~ 

Once class was over, Jacquelyn, Josh, and I left to have our very first class dinner—of just the three of us—for the first time this entire program. While we were walking to the destination, we tried coming up with times we met up and ate together but there was always one other person with us. I brought up our one short trip to the grilled cheese place but I didn’t eat anything when we went so Jacquelyn ruled that out and said it doesn’t count. 

We ate here~

So we had our first class dinner at this Japanese restaurant. I am not too familiar with Japanese food so I was happy to try something that I usually don’t eat—especially something that I wouldn’t leave my comfort zone to try if I was by myself. I ate 사계동 (or something like that?) It was basically just a bowl of rice topped with raw salmon, veggies, and soy sauce—very tasty though! The fish was very fresh. 

During dinner we talked a lot about how far we’ve come throughout the program, our relationships with the others, how we have changed during program (growing to really love 김치 being one common thread that I had with Josh), worries about college, our plans for what to study in college, plans to meet up in Virginia and go to Betty’s Azalea Ranch (an inside joke within my class), as well as plans to go to 노량진시장 together once more before leaving Korea! 

It was still really early when we finished our dinner since we did get to the restaurant only a bit after 5:30 pm so we decided to get some dessert at a cute cafe.

Of course, Jacquelyn pulled out Mango Plate and was able to find a place selling chocolate lava cake. It was a bit pricey—6,500 Won (probably a little less than $6) but it was worth it! The cafe was decorated gorgeously and the atmosphere was so comfortable. Additionally, once this couple before us left, we had the whole cafe to ourselves for about two hours. No one came in during the duration that we were there. That probably isn’t the case on non weekday nights but I liked that it wasn’t crazy loud or busy or anything like that. 

Our cafe conversation was fun as well. We have fun in class too with stories and such but it felt different to be out of the classroom environment and in a more chill one with the both of them. It was really enjoyable and it made me wish that we had done this more often—from the beginning. We always said we would…

We even ate the lava cakes with these cute little wooden spoons! Adorable!

At one point, Jacquelyn brought up a fact that she doesn’t really hang out with this one NSLI-Yian anymore after they moved away from 홍대 and how the distance kept their relationship from getting closer. Josh added to this to say that he used hang out with a girl named “Emma” (literally not subtle at all) a lot when he lived in 고양시 and since then, they haven’t hung out often. I felt sorely attacked by this but I mean he wasn’t wrong. We did kinda drift a part after he moved away due to the distance as well as some misunderstandings within our cohort. But we have been hanging out more lately it seems! And I will continue to make plans with Josh because I really do treasure his friendship~ 

사랑하는 3반친구들

Josh and I ran into Jack at the subway station and he told us about his master plan to order pizza before class the next day and then asking to pick it up during one of the class breaks so that he and Liam could eat pizza during class. I found this plan very funny and exactly something they would do for sure. I went home after that, arriving at about 8:30 pm ish. Rather than studying Korean, I stayed up late figuring out financial things for college and filling out my housing application. Everything is so complicated and I am out of the loop… I know no one from my ‘new’ class and I’m nervous about that. I’m also not a apart of the new QB (my scholarship) chat so… that’s concerning. I need to figure out how to join. I also did research on where to rent 한복 near 경복궁 but that proved to be preparation in vain..you’ll find out why in the next blog post. 

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  • Emma 엠마

Pancake Brunch Tradition in Hongdae & Josh’s Cafe (04/22/19) NSLI-Y Korea AY

04/22/19 Monday

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Morning walks with springtime flowers >>>>>>

Katie and I kicked off our midterm break in the same way that we kicked off our winter break… with brunch! Specifically, brunch at Flapjack Pantry–our favorite place to get American-style breakfast in 홍대. (Travel Maker is a close second, though. This was a highly contested debate within our NSLI-Y cohort) We stuffed our faces with pancakes of course!! No surprise there~

The weather was so nice this day~~ It was supposed to be the warmest day of the week and it definitely felt like summer rather than spring. Katie and I had a lot of fun just talking while enjoying our scrumptious food—happy to not have woken up at 6 am that morning for school…just that high school student life! We also ordered a side of fries which I understand is not a typical pairing with breakfast foods but we were craving a FULL American experience this morning. 

After we had brunch, we went off to find a cafe to work at because we needed to do some homework. The both of us left things until the last minute… We were gonna go to this “Insta-worthy” cafe at first but alas, they are closed on Mondays! So instead of that, we went to our trusted cafe near Better World—Josh’s Cafe. (I wish I could remember the actual name…but the name included stars or moons? It will come back to me eventually.)

Earlier, when we passed by the cafe, the owner waved at us as she saw us out the window. When we returned to study there after brunch, she said “우우 다시 왔어” (ooo You came again!) as we walked through the door. I felt as welcomed as ever~~ 

brunch 3

I ordered a chocolate banana smoothie and when the owner brought out our drinks, there were two little cute pieces of strawberries right on top of mine~ She told me that she prepared them just for me. It was such a sweet gesture!

We studied there for almost two hours and I was able to really get productive, even when Addie and Josh came by which disturbed the peace for a bit (Not throwing shade but it’s the truth! When people are around you not working, it makes you not want to work either). I was able finish my witting assignment on the reasons behind the  increase of international/interracial marriages as well as problems that arise for those types of couples AND re-memorized my speech on technology (even though I ended up not needed to since we did NOT any presentations give them on Monday.)

brunch 4

In class today we discussed the term “millennials” in Korean and how Korean society has split up generations and their respective names.

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Also, we discussed our current packing crisis since we will need to start preparing for returning home and our teacher recommended that we donate some clothes! She told us about used clothes bins around the city and I will have to look into that! I have some clothes I want to leave behind/no longer fit.

brunch 5

Since Katie and I had a large brunch, we ended up not eating lunch which was fine with me at the time but eventually after Korean class, I was feeling extra hungry. We had our bi-weekly meeting after class so all the NSLI-Y students met up at the center for that. To my surprise, Katie bought me ice cream! She came through the door holding some cookie sandwich ice cream and I was so touched~~ I was hungry so she really has good sense! 

 

After class, I walked around the main shopping street of 홍대 with Kaitlyn for a little less than 30 minutes because she wanted to kill time before her train. I ended up buying a new wallet during that time… reason #217 that I can’t go down that street: I will buy something. It’s kind of a necessary though; my current one is falling apart. Literally. 

I got home just in time for dinner and when my sisters arrived home, they asked me what I wanted to eat. Usually, I say something along the lines of “상관 없어” (I do not have a preference/I do not mind) or “아무것나 괜찮아” (anything is good) because I do not want to give them any more work. I will literally eat anything they prepare for me. However, this time I actually chose out of the options they offered. So we had chicken for dinner! 

My host mom had to leave mid-meal because of some work thing so it was just me and my host sisters eating dinner together. And, it was a lot of fun! I ended up staying at the kitchen table/chilling in the living room for almost two hours after we ate because we were just having that much fun talking! Honestly, I love my host sisters so much because we always have great conversations. They aren’t afraid to talk about any topic with me and I love that! (And I do not mean in just a personal/intimate sense–with what is discussed–but they also do not shy away from certain topics (or words even) just because of the language barrier. For them, our relationship has no barrier–it is simply a hurdle. And that can be hard to find, especially in regards to relationships with locals. When I speak with them, I feel normal–just like a human. Basically, not as a foreigner.)

First, they told me about this recent scandal with a famous clothing brand on Instagram. Apparently, someone messaged the owner about the holes on some shirt being too small for the buttons and the owner rudely replied (in a fake nice manner) telling the customer to just cut the holes bigger with a knife. That customer posted the DMs online on some forum and it went viral in Korea. Tons of other people started exposing that online store and they lost a lot of their followers on Instagram.

Stemming from that, we started talking about scandals with how people respond to certain situations, so I brought up the scandal with some American college professor or other who sent an email to someone asking for the Chinese students of that particular university (they were possibly international students?) to not be allowed to speak Chinese on campus with others around. Her round-about ridiculous reasoning being that they would do better connecting to the community or getting internships or something of the sort if they refrained from speaking Chinese. My sisters asked me what happened to the teacher and I’m pretty sure she was fired because the school did not want to give an image of an institution that doesn’t promote or accept diversity. 

We also talked about funny subway stories in which I mentioned the time that I saw a carry-on fall off the shelf above the seats right onto a woman standing there. My sisters were freaking out when I was telling this story because they couldn’t believe someone could be so dumb as to place their bag up there—especially seeing that it was one of those rolling carry-on bags with the hard plastic shell covers. Their screams of disbelief kept getting louder and louder as they added each description word to the suitcase: wheels? Plastic? Hard?

They also told me the old way that people would confess to random strangers on the subway. And that would be by telling the person that they like that they would be getting off at the next stop. Hoping that if they were interested, they would follow them off at that stop. My younger host sister told me of the time that she witnessed it happen to a girl that was standing next to her on the train. When the guy told her that statement, she bluntly replied that she would not be getting off at the next station. That would be so embarrassing! It was a public confession at that!! But hey, kudos to him for being brave enough to shoot his shot in that manner–and in public.

We also talked about turnoffs with guys and one that we brought up was a guy that uses social media a lot and takes a lot of selfies. My host sisters think that kind of behavior is okay for girls to do (even though they do not do it) but for guys, they find it distasteful. It was interesting to hear that perspective because I think that a lot of Korean guys could fit into that box? Social Media is such a BIG thing here and I have observed that social media habits are quite different for both genders in Korea but especially in comparison to the habits of the same genders in the United States (or at least, within the circles I know on social media). Maybe I should write a post about this subject! I feel like it could be interesting to more deeply analyze this topic.

After hanging out in the living room chatting for a bit, I returned to my room to finish up my homework for the next day. I also had to pack because I was going to mail a package at the post office the following day. I needed to go through what I was gonna send now (and wouldn’t receive for 2-3 months as I would be sending it by boat) and what was gonna come with me back to the states in my suitcase. 

That’s all for this blog post then~ Thanks for reading!! I hope you enjoyed!! Please subscribe if you enjoy this content!^^ Bye!

  • Emma 엠마 

Productive Cafe Date, Feeling Sick, and Age Gaps in Korea (04/10/19) NSLI-Y AY

04/10/19 Wednesday

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Views from my transfer station 대곡역 which is mostly outside. It makes me truly feel like I am outside of Seoul since its surroundings look pretty rural. But look, some flowers started blooming~ Although the morning is still very chilly. I have a love-hate relationship with this station; however, the scenery is nice.

When I woke up Wednesday morning, I knew I had come down with something and it wasn’t just a cold. My throat ached badly and when I opened my mouth to cough, the sheer raspiness in my voice surprised me. I could still breath out of my nose perfectly fine but my head also throbbed. I placed my hand against my forehead and could feel unusual warmth. I decided to just carry on with the day regardless (I do not get sick often and have not skipped school for sickness in a long time so my initial game plan was to ignore it.) and threw on my 생활복 and didn’t even do my hair or put on any makeup (something that’s pretty rare now—though in high school, I never wore makeup.) 

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Wow, catch this awkward sick-day selfie. Look at those dArK CiRcLeS!!

Wednesday’s day of school was literally a blur. Maybe because I was sick? But trying to look back on this day… I come up with nothing. However, I guess it could have also just been an uneventful school day. I had 국어 in the morning which I basically just day dreamed throughout the entire thing because I wasn’t feeling well. At one point, the teacher was explaining some concept involving fire and paper so he came to my desk (I was sitting in the back) and took my paper and tried throwing it up in the air. While demonstrating, he dropped his marker and paper on the floor so it ended up being kind of awkward—especially because I still had no idea what he was trying to show me. I had to muffle my nervous laughter.

Another time, he asked me what 벚꽃 (cherry blossoms) were in English and after I told him, he proceeds to point out the flower on our paper but he realized that I was “looking”at the wrong side of the paper so he flipped the side for me. That was a bit embarrassing to be honest… 

During my study period with Katie… I literally stole her coat and then slept for almost the entire period. It was pretty nice. 

During my two hours of 세계사, I worked on my Korean workbook pages and then did a Topik reading test. 

We ate lunch with our friends but I was not really impressed by the meal. Mostly because the rice contained corn kernels and I could barely eat around it so I gave up eating it halfway through lunch. (I hate corn more than any other food in this world…) I was also really sick at this point in the day so I barely said a word during lunch. I just brought spoonfuls up to my mouth and chewed. Katie was also very tired so she didn’t say much either.

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We had Japanese Omurice (오모라이스) which is just an empty omelette draped over rice usually accompanied by a savory/sweet sauce.

My last class of the day was politics and we just listened to lectures for the two hours, so I worked on my Topik writing test which left me finished with my last Topik test! (Actually this is a lie; we will probably get one more before the date of the actual test.) 

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After school today we had our second club meeting; however, since midterms are coming up, we ended up self-studying during the period—or at least for the greater part of the hour. At first we goofed off about the club hoodies that we are making and the ugly logo of the club but after awhile, everyone was able to settle down in their own desk and do some work. I made a Quizlet for the newest chapter for Korean class! 

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Gloomy weather after school

After school, even though I felt like death, I decided to go to Twosome Place with Katie because I worried that if I went home, I would just sleep and not do any actual work. I wanted to prevent this or at least lessen the consequences by doing most of my work before I got home. 

And I was successful, despite the random dance breaks to Taylor Swift’s Love Story and Let it Go, I was able to write my entire presentation on a Korean historical figure: I choose the Korean independence movement leader 유관순 열사. Also Katie told the employees at the cafe that I hurt my foot (which is why she ordered a hot chocolate for me) and so when we left the cafe after our study date, she asked me how I hurt my foot. I explained to her that I wore new shoes (left out the part about the fact that they were heels) and walked around for hours so I hurt my feet. She laughed and said “Oh I assumed you hurt it badly.” We laughed and left but if only she could see my toe! It is no tiny blister! No, it is not! 

(I don’t think I wrote about it earlier but one of my blisters—from wearing uncomfortable heels while walking for hours on Sunday—on my foot popped and the skin ripped off so I have an area on my pinky toe (makes it ten times worse) about the size of a quarter that’s all red and raw as my first layer of skin literally peeled up. It hurts a lot and even if I put band-aids on it, it hurts really badly–especially, when I wear my sneakers and walk around so I currently have a limp while I walk. I also have been using it as an excuse to use the elevator in the school more often cause stairs… are not my favorite right now.)

Anyway, I came home after studying at the cafe and had dinner with my host sisters. We ate at home but we had this huge feast made up of grilled meats, two different kinds of noodles and a pot of steamed egg. During dinner today, we had an interesting conversation about age difference in Korea. In America, we have a common phrase that “Age is but a number” but in Korea, it is so much more than that so I was curious to know  how it relates to relationships. From what my host sisters told me, too big of age gaps are not common but they really aren’t a big deal as long as the two people are close enough in age that they are a part of the same “generation” if you will. When it comes to friendships, it’s a bit different because if there’s a very large age gap, sometimes it can feel like you aren’t true friends but simply a person that’s just older than you (like an 언니 or 오빠). She did tell me that there’s a very negative image towards guys in their late 20s dating girls in their early twenties/in college. 

My older host sister explained that this is seen as really sleazy to most people and they actually view the guy as a bad person. (Example, if a 26 year old was dating a 21 year old in college.) They also said that he would probably take advantage of her because she doesn’t know better but more importantly, it’s a real red flag if he can’t find anyone in his own circle of acquaintances and has to resort to shooting his shot in a bigger pool with younger girls. They did mention that this the other way around (a way older woman with a younger guy) has no negative connotations. 

She also made sure to tell me that I need to be careful with Korean men especially because I’m a foreigner—she said no one too old!! And if I find someone, especially someone that old, she will have to have dinner with him and make sure that his intentions are pure. It was really cute~ At that moment, I felt what is what I assume it feels like to have an older sister~

That is all for this blog post~ I hope you enjoyed! I am on the grind writing out these blog posts so quickly this week. I am really trying to catch up (only 5 days behind now!) Let’s get this! Thanks for reading, anyway! Insert your email to the right of this post to follow for more!

  • Emma 엠마